Interview with Sleepy Ray McDonald

guitarist, recorded March 1995


RHL : What led you to take up the guitar?

SRM: It was one of the instruments we had when I was very young. I always had one. Though we never had it long because one of my brothers would step on it and break it. It was something I wanted to play. And when I became a 14 I got serious about it.

RHL : What was the music you learned then?

SRM : "House Of the Rising Sun" was the first song I learned. It was what my guitar teacher taught me. After that, I got involved with the music of the day. Jimi Hendrix, that kind of thing. Bob Seger. Back then the rock and roll was generated more by some of the older stuff. But I gave up guitar after a while, and just started singing. Everyone in Texas plays guitar, few of them sing, and somebody had to sing, so that's what I started doing. I did that for about two years, then went back to playing guitar. By this time I was back in the church, and they told me if I played that kind of music I was going to hell, so I kinda had to refrain from playing the wilder stuff, I started playing bluegrass, which was good but also acceptable. As long as you didn't sing about drinking. But I really was just into the blues side of rock. I'd get into trouble 'cause we'd be playing bluegrass and I'd start playing the honky-tonk sort of stuff, which I loved. My dad was into the country music, and it was more honky-tonk back then, and that's what I would just naturally play. I didn't know any blues players back then, outside of, say, Hendrix and the popular artists of the day. Even Led Zeppelin was based in blues licks and stuff, but I didn't get into that stuff much. But I was playing bluesy stuff with a country band, and so I went off into country music like Willie Nelson [[Ed.: what Texan didn't??]], who was a more blues-based country. And I kept getting bluesier. And after hearing the blues in the movie "Brubaker", I looked for even bluesier stuff. Then I fell in love with [the music of] Lightning Hopkins, who was a country-styled blues, out of Texas. It was him with an acoustic guitar and I studied him, and I would listen to him all day, and just pick his stuff. By this time I had kinda left the church, you know, because I couldn't deal with the idea that I was going to hell if I just played music. I couldn't deal with not playing music anymore, so I chose to play music and not go to church.

I went off to college [Texas A and M] to study civil engineering, because I knew that as a musician I'd probably be broke, so I'd better have something to fall back on. It's what my mom begged me to do, anyhow. As I was in college I kept getting into more blues. Stevie Ray Vaughan came around, and he was the culmination of all the artists that I loved. I was breaking into my twenties, and when you listen to all those blues guys and they each would have their own thing : Lightning had his own thing, Freddie King, Albert King, T Bone Walker, all had their own thing. It was like Stevie went and put their things all on one album. So me and my brother [[Bobby, a bass player]] would listen to a lot of Stevie, and a lot of Fabulous Thunderbirds. We were into a lot of the older guys, too. It was one of those things where, the first time I hit a blue note, I knew that this was what I'd love to do. I didn't know much about playing guitar, but I knew how to hit one note, bend it up and down and make people smile, and so I was going to go with it. That's as easy as it was.

My brother was two years behind me, but then he came up to the college with me, and we lived together. I think we spent more time in the garage of that house -- we turned the garage into a studio, and we'd go in there and just play, and play. And do a little homework. And play. And go out [places] and play. We loved it together, and we wrote together, and we came to California together. And it was a blessing, too, to get out of the situation we were in, because in Texas, your social circles were very heavy into alcohol, a very destructive type of lifestyle, and the music just runs hand-in-hand with that. It wasn't until we got to California that we put that kind of crap behind us and really got serious about playing music. It's hard to get good at this when you're drunk all the time.

So he came out to California with me, and we started this group called the Black Sedans, which was a Texas blues band. This was in '84. And we played the club scenes out in LA for three and a half years. Because they'd never heard Texas blues out here, we were the newest thing. It sounds ridiculous, but noone here had heard the Fabulous Thunderbirds or Stevie Ray Vaughan. The first shows we played, it was like every record executive in town [was there] : Capitol, Warner Brothers. We were naive. We just wanted somebody to shake their butt in a bar. We just wanted to see somebody dance. We knew this music was fun, and we just wanted to play it for that, not to get signed to any record deal. And when these record companies came around, I had to say to them that none of the songs we were playing were ours. They belong to Slim Harpo and Freddie King and the Fabulous Thunderbirds; it turned them off, and it showed their ignorance of the type of music, it was embarassing. It was embarassing on our part, too. It was about then that we started to try to write. And they were saying, 'you gotta get more pop, less blues', and it kinda took the soul out of it for us. So we disbanded [the Sedans], and me and my brother started another group, which played for a while.

RHL : How did you get back into the faith?

SRM : I was raised in the church by my grandma. I remember being saved at a very young age, I remember how real it was to me. They [in the congregation] didn't really believe I could be at such a young age, and I heard them explain how they had 'allowed' me to be saved, as if they had something to do with it. By the time I had gone into junior high, and we were doing the music thing, we started smoking pot. [In my own head,] I didn't have any problem with coming home stoned and reading the Bible, I didn't know that that was wrong, you know, though there was something inside of me that said so. My mom had been divorced and she remarried, so we were away from my grandma, and we didn't go to church much anymore. When I was 15 I got back into the church, because this girl I started dating, I couldn't date her unless I was going to church, and that was fine with me, I was glad to go back. We were Southern Baptist, and we learned a lot of good stuff about the faith and the Word of God, but there was down in that Bible belt a lot of religion that inhibits someone's personality and their walk with God. There was no talk of grace, little evidence of it. So when I 'fell from grace', meaning that I went and danced with a girl, I thought it would be okay 'cause she was Southern Baptist too, but it wasn't good enough. I was feeling too guilty to deal with it. And then I had a beer, and that really crushed the cake, 'cause I was [[for a brief while]] going to be a pastor and going to Bible school. I fell away hard. That was in 1980. So, from then on, my life style was getting worse, with a lot more drinking, trying to cover up God's call on my life. I never entirely forgot the Lord, and He kept calling me back, but I kept wanting to clean up my life to do it -- again, I didn't understand the grace.

It was in 1991, and Chris Lizotte called and asked me if I could play guitar with him. [Lizotte] had just done an album for New Breed [the Vineyard's record label], and he was about to go on the road with it. I told him, 'send me your CD and I'll see if I enjoy it'. He sent it, and it was more folky than blues or anything, and I kinda declined because that just wasn't my style. Shawn Tubbs played on the record, and if you know Tubbs' playing with the Violet Burning, well, we just didn't have similar styles. And [Lizotte] said, no, I just want you to come play blues with me, and play your stuff with what I've got going. So for six months or so, I'd go play with him, and that was mostly in church, but I'd never stay for the church services. For I knew God, and I didn't need to be in the church to know God. (I'm sure you've heard that line before...) I didn't realize then that the Church was a blessing in my life, it wasn't a curse. Yet in the midst of all that, I kept wanting to get closer to God. For a while, when I was younger, I had really walked with the Lord, I had seen prayer answered, and had brought people to the Lord. So I knew what it was like to walk with the Lord. I knew it was an all-or-nothing type thing, so it wasn't easy to come back, 'cause I knew there'd have to be some changes to my life. So i struggled with that for seven months. And then I said, 'Lord, I want you to have control of my life'. And I was dating a girl at the time, and I just kinda flippantly said, 'if you want to take her out of my life, just go ahead, take her out of my life'. And it was as if he said right then, 'when she comes back from Tennessee, she'll tell you it's over'. And she came back a week later, and told me it was over. But that was the start of a decline, for I went into a self-pity spiral for about three months. I was about to turn thirty, and that was the point in my life when I was supposed to be a millionaire, wasn't it?

[His grandmother died, and he went back to Texas to the funeral.]
......and I was about to head out to the airplane, and I was leaving a friend's apartment complex, they had a doorman actually, and he was an old black gentleman named George, and I'd known George for a while, and he reached out and grabbed me by the arm as I was going out to go to the airport, and he gave me his testimony in Christ, for an hour and a half. And I started out thinking, 'I'm going to miss the plane, and this guy's going to talk to me about Jesus?!' It got me to thinking. I don't know what was with that guy, but he just flat gave me his testimony. And when I got onto a plane, I knew something was going on. And so I got back and saw my grandmother buried, and my cousin said, 'let's me and you go out'. We used to go out, have some beers, more than *some*, a lot of beers, and I thought, 'I don't want to get drunk with him this time, I don't want to live this way anymore'. But we went out to the bars, and he was buying shots, and I was passing them over to his other drunk friends who didn't even know they'd done theirs. And I finally got rid of them, and I went to a table at the bar, and --- you know, when the Holy Spirit's hitting hard on you, you're kinda flustered, and then I was just sitting there, and there was this girl on the little stage singing. And she was very beautiful, and she came down from the stage and was trying to pick me up. Which I knew was weird because this certainly didn't happen on a regular basis! I was wondering, 'why was this pretty girl doing this?' And it was at that time that God kinda pulled back the curtain, and said, 'tonight, I'm calling you back, and Satan's going to throw everything at you that he can, and you're gonna have to make that decision. I got up, thanked the lady for her time, and left, and for the next two days the Lord began to deal with me, and there were some very supernatural things that happened over those next two days that I could expand upon if you want it...

RHL : no.

SRM : That was just a time that the Lord called me to the all-or-nothing. I had to get down on my knees and give everything up. And I realized then just how much I was holding on to. That was in January of '92. And I came back to LA knowing that I was going to live my life for Jesus and that I wanted to be a minister of the Gospel, and that the music He gave me was a blessing. He wanted it to be a blessing, but He wanted it to be a blessing that would come through Him, not on my own understanding. And it's been three years now and there's been a lot of tests and trials that have grown me up.

RHL : the church you're going to now is what?

SRM : Anaheim Vineyard. [The church of John Wimber.]


Since the album was recorded :

  1. he moved to Anaheim to work more closely with the label (New Breed);
  2. SRM: the most challenging thing is that I made the album God called me to do, *now* what do I do? How do I present this, how do I put it out there so people don't think I'm saying, 'Hey look at me, I'm another guitar player, let me impress you, please buy my CD'. How do I make it more a passionate thing about my Lord? The music has to be your best, and the art's got to stand on its own. People have to be able to get into it before they would ever get into the lyrics, and that's fair. But the Lord's been dealing with me on how to do it with integrity. I've played a lot with Chris Lizotte, and we still play together occasionally, and now that I'm doing things on my own, I've been seeing things done with a lot of integrity. Certainly have my family eat, 'cause this is what i do for a living, but to make sure that that doesn't become my main focus, but rather that the Lord would speak through me and play through me;
  3. He plays in all sorts of venues, including clubs, coffeehouses, and occasional churches. SRM:"In a bar, most of the time they're not listening to the lyrics, unfortunately, and in a church they aren't either. I don't go into a bar with the attitude, 'I'm gonna play for these heathens', I go in [thinking], 'I've sat where you sit, and I know what it's like, and I'd wish that a brother would come along, and not come up and tell me what a sorry person I was or try to make me feel guilty about my life, but would just share with me what God has for me'. There's a certain way of doing it that you don't sound like you're preaching. It'll be God within me when I strike that balance. When you get these big guys put their big hairy arms around you and cry, you feel kinda scared at first, they look like they're gonna ring your neck, but if that's the way it gets through, if that's how it reaches people, that's God working through anything that I can give. My heart is for the exile, who may have a heart for God but don't know how to bridge the gap, and don't know that He has already done it. There's a lot of them out there."
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